All parents worry about their children during Adolescence, especially girls. They keep complaining about what their kids do and how they get so annoying and the many problems they cause. They think about how to deal with them, but sometimes they forget about thinking what may affect them to be so and what may be the reason for their behavior.
Parents worry about their children and their future and get so afraid of the change in the teens’ personalities to affect their plans for their children in life. It is true that people have a lot of ups and downs through life, but in somehow those ups and downs could be related to teenage. In fact, this phase of one’s life gives a quite clear hint about what their coming future will be like. It is unfair to be obligated to making decisions that your whole life will depend on in such a phase of instability, but this is what life is. Therefore, what the parents should worry about the most is what may affect this unstable phase of their teens’ lives and accordingly their future.
In fact, most teenagers’ reactions are mainly due to their parents’ behavior. There are many reasons for being a wild teen girl. She may lack self-confidence, which may be most of the time because of the way her parents deal with her. They may make her think they do not believe in her by sending negative messages about her abilities. Many parents make the mistake of thinking or making decisions for their kids as if they cannot have the ability to do it themselves. So, a teen girl may try to do some crazy things to show that she has her skills and that she can do what she wants. She may begin doing precisely the opposite of anything her parents tell her to do.
Another reason for being a wild teen girl can be the problems between the two parents. Teenagers feel so lost if they live in such a life full of challenges. This can be considered the most extended effect of them all. The domestic problems are enough reason to make the girl hate her life in her own home. That may affect even her future decision only to get out of this experience. Bad memories can keep hunting her all her life, maybe with her husband or her children in the future. Girls turn out to be violent and careless and begin to look for some other replacement. That replacement could be anyone, even a bad friend who drags her to the wrong way.
That leads us to another reason for being wild which is friends. Girls, always and over the whole world, imitate each other whether out of jealousy or thinking they are doing something beautiful or funny. They always deny it but trust me they do. It is like a typical role that a teen girl cannot stand seeing some other girl doing something she did not do before or having something she does not have, especially their friends. Despite the claim that every girl in the world likes to be unique in her own way, she also wants to keep up with the level of her friends on the scale of fashion, having fun, and being free. That can be considered a main fundamental reason for the change of behavior parents notice. In a moment, the teen girl seems to be somebody else different from who she is. Moreover, the new world she begins to recognize through the internet and satellites has a significant influence on her unique personality that starts to be shaped.
Finally, parents have to be careful in dealing with their children through their life phases. They need to consider all the circumstances that can affect their children to sure they will not impact them negatively. For girls, they can be fragile more than anyone may think. They will be in a severe need to have a friend who is caring and wise. This friend should be one of the parents who can help her to get through it and take her first steps on the road she wishes to take through her life.